E I met in university one afternoon when he was having a smoke outside and I was just there. He just started talking to me and that was the beginning of the end. I don't normally talk to strangers, it just felt right. 16 years later and we are still buds.
Y was on the plane with me in May 2001 when I moved to the UK. We didn't know each other. The final boarding call was made and oh shit! I was about to miss my plane to the UK. I ran as fast as I could and a few minutes later I see this guy zoom by with my university back pack. All I saw was his hair, bag, clothing and height. I just thought to myself. He seems cool. Wonder if he's on my flight. Low and behold he was... And sitting next to me too! We spoke for 7 hours and now it's 14 years later.
I sure do pick em!
I have only seen E so far and next week I'll catch up with Y.
They both call me several times and a day and it's like I never left. E calls when ever he's driving and I complain about the poor quality of his blue tooth headset. Y calls when he free and when waiting for the bus and metro.
Y has girl problems so I counsel him in the ins and outs of relationships! I'm full of good advice and wisdom despite my own ducks not being in order.
E just talks about anything random. He doesn't complain at all and won't listen to me when I complain. He has reason. His older sister died a year ago leaving behind 5 kids. Life seriously sucks sometimes! When E and I met we went for a coffee. It was easy and close. I might have been having a winge about something stupid and insignificant and he replied with a good saying. "May that be the worst of your problems..." I smile and shut the fuck up! I'm glad he puts me in my place. Additionally I worry about him. I think he should still express his feelings and emotions even if they are negative or complaining.
My final part is I love these 2 very different boys, very much. They are great! They are also trouble because they are boys! :-)